There is the image (or concept) and the reality.
The process of bending reality to fit the image is what we call 'trying'.
Trying is a kind of forcing; it is the act of seeking to adhere to an idea or pattern that exists in your mind.
When you try, exertion is required.
Effort creates anxiety and tension.
Tension impedes you.
Rather than try... allow.
Allowing is a passive, relaxed approach that involves stepping out of the way.
Some things happen by themselves.