Initial contact

When the attacker launches their assault, you need to make contact with them.
Ideally, this needs to be relaxed, comfortable and effective.
Your aim is to compromise the opponent without alerting their nervous system.

If you are aggressive or forceful, you will bang into the attacker and this will lead to a fight.
You will probably resort to tension and physical force.
This is not tai chi.

Remain composed, make space and do not rush.