You

If we can accept that the world does not revolve around you personally, then that is a starting place. Other people have wants, needs and feelings too.

Many people walk this earth as if they personally owned it. Everyone else is a cast member in some monumental production staged for their benefit. Wake up.

It is not all about you. Do not implicate yourself in every situation. Sometimes things happen and you are an unexpected victim. This is not nice, but it was not about you personally. Do not make everything personal.