Interacting with Sifu Waller
can be an uncomfortable experience simply because we rarely meet someone who
doesn't have any agenda or desire for validation. My first dealings with him
left me frustrated as he seemed unwilling to acknowledge my questions or
validate me. I was fortunate enough to have the realisation that it was me
that was at fault. Sifu Waller has mastered yielding in more than one way it
would seem. He does not engage with this level of interaction, it is after
all petty and pointless, and instead reflected back my own motivations and
desires for approval etc. This was uncomfortable, it made me more acutely
aware of the motivations behind my thoughts and actions. It made me choose
my words and thoughts more carefully. For those unable to see what is
happening they may perceive Sifu Waller as rude, cold etc. Actually what he
offers is of the utmost value, I have never encountered anyone since who
cuts through the crap and helps me to refine myself in this way. It was
clear that Sifu Waller was considerate and compassionate when faced with
authentic desire for learning and a lack of pretentiousness.
(Rob Veater)
(Rob Veater)
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