Blameless

It is tempting to think that we always behave correctly and always handle things well.
In reality, we do not.
We make decisions all the time that seem fine, but later have potentially negative outcomes or unforeseen side-effects.

All relationships have two sides.
Are you being honest about your actions?
How did your actions affect others?
This does not mean that you are to blame, any more than it means that you are blameless.